Quick rant here.
OK – I know – I’m never quick, deal with it.
How has social media affected the way we enjoy those too rare moments in life when you get to grab some happiness? Here’s a personal bonehead observation…
I’m a lifelong Yankee fan, since I was a little Bone.
Historically, the Yankees have been a winning team – more championships than any other professional sports team in history matter of fact. I’m also way older than Joe Girardi, so some of my earliest recollections are from when the team was really bad. I think they finished in last place or close to last most of the few first years I began following the team. First game I went to in 1974 there were less than 10,000 people in the stands, Horace Clarke was the second baseman and Fritz Peterson was the staring pitcher. Obviously, they’ve come a real long way since then.
I state this simply as a point of reference. Became a fan when they sucked, I’ve followed them forever and have always been a fan, not a front runner.
It shouldn’t have amazed me as much as it did – but I could not believe how much bitter hatred came out over the past twenty four hours among so many of my contacts on facebook.
Call me over-sensitive. I’m really not. Really.
Call me humor-less. If you saw what I looked like – you’d know that wasn’t the case.
Call me a prick. Well, ok you got me there.
I was really bothered by the amount of comments that all basically stated things like…
“The Yankees bought the championship”
This posted mainly by New York Mets and Boston Red Sox fans – the #2 and #3 spending teams in the big leagues.
“A-Rod does steroids”
Face it – every team has had players who did steroids. Who the fuck cares really? You’re all happy when your team wins and if the winning run is driven in by someone who injected something into their ass at some point to make them hit the ball further – would you really be upset?
“Yankees suck”
Yes – of course they do asshole, that’s why they just knocked off last years champs to win the World Series.
I’m all for the banter and smack talk between rivals, when they’re playing one another. At the end of the contest – typically the loser offers congratulations to the winner, albeit unhappily. I don’t think that’s idealistic – but if it doesn’t end up that way, then someone is simply a sore loser, and that’s a sad character trait.
Here in New York, there’s a lot of Yankees fans who could either care less about, or perhaps wish the best for the Mets. So many Mets fans however, who out and out hate the Yankees. Jealousy perhaps? Yankees have won like what…27? The Mets, uhh 2? So, many Mets fans chose today to go out and post their disdain and contempt for the Yankees, by posting mostly hateful, and I assure you, never funny (perhaps clever was the attempt?). All I can ask is why?
Let’s examine their thought process.
“I think I’d like to broadcast to the world that I can’t be happy – so let me say something obnoxious to everyone who may have just found some of that elusive happiness”
That’s probably not how it really goes.
Look - I’m an asshole. I do all kinds of stupid things, I say what’s on my mind, usually, it’s to try and get somebody to laugh. I like that, making somebody laugh. Maybe I like it when people are happy – I don’t know, that’s just me, like I said, I’m an asshole.
I look at it more as a sorry statement of society, perhaps that’s why it’s bugging me so much. I don’t give two shits if you don’t like my team – everyone is entitled to their opinion.
But why do so many people think it’s a great idea to piss on others momentary happiness by spilling their own misery all over them. And I’m not talking about Philadelphia Phillie fans – the ones on my network were nothing but sad for their team, and some even were congratulating the winners. It was primarily the poor jealous Mets fans.
Is it that desperate a situation for them that because they can’t be happy with their own choices? How does it help someone so sad to present themselves as an obnoxious ass? Does it really help? What strikes me as odd – is that they’re doing it in a forum where they broadcast their feelings, thoughts and opinions to their “friends”. Doing it as well with absolutely no regard as to how it might make them be perceived as small, sad, sore losers.
Sadder still, most of them didn’t even get to compete in the game.
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I don't follow sports much so I don't know a whole lot about that. I have noticed that fans seem to take it way to seriously though. Now assholes? I know about them...lol Most of them are all proud of it too
You know I simply had to comment! I tried not to. I did!
As a life-long Red Sox fan, "Yankees Suck" is not an opinion to me, just a statement of an long held and accepted fact in my life. From my perspective, they do, in fact, suck.
That said, there are no other teams that I would love to see at Fenway as much as the Yankees and I really enjoy hating them so.
I honestly feel that the Yankees/Sox rivalry greatly enhances the game for me. And if they Yankees weren't as good as they are, they probably wouldn't 'suck' so much.
So Congratulations on your team winning the World Series.
Opinions are like assholes, yup we all have one. Either you are a Yankee fan or a Yankee hater. No team I know of can cause such a extreme fan base on either side. Yeah sure we 'bought" the championship, just like we bought the championship for the last nine years, NOT.
What are we not suppose to spend the money available to get the best players that we can. New York is not Oshkosh, so therefore we do have a great revenue stream. But money in and of itself cannot buy a world title, except maybe in boxing.
We are the champions period. Been a Yankee fan with Horace Clark and Roy White and on and on also. But we didn't abandon ship when they sucked. Hey I have also been a Cheesehead all my life and haven't had a great many seasons to be happy over.
So I am happy and dancing and yes I am a Yankee FaN!
Ann: Yes, they are oddly proud all the time aren’t they? Really would love to know who they see in the mirror every morning though – because that person must look way better than the one we have to look at.
C: Glad you did! And thanks too! I do get the whole “your team sucks” when it’s in regards to a natural rivalry such as Red Sox-Yankees – it’s the best rivalry and most venomous one in sports, plus both teams have been consistently good for most of the past 35 seasons or so. I think it’s more annoying for me to get it from a Mets fan – because I never got the whole cross-town jealousy thing.
MOB: You’re right.
Every team has the opportunity to play on the same “field” – the Yankees just make the most of what they have. Considering how many teams have benefited from the Yankees through revenue sharing, luxury tax payments and the like – it’s just so frustrating to hear how a championship was “bought” by the fans of the teams who gladly took the Yankees money.
I guess you proved that misery loves company since all the Yankee haters hang out in a forum to bitch to one another. Geez. Don't they have any thing better to do? I guess a shrink would call it transference.
I know that there are rabid fans out there and I am not so sure as to why their anger(jealous) comes out in such a fashion. It is their karma to deal with. Enjoy your victory with all of the gusto you can muster and wave it here... let them eat cake!
I'm old. When I was a kid the Dodgers were still in Brooklyn. Imagine the rivalry that develops when the top teams in both leagues are situated in the same city. Dodger and Yankee fans couldn't be in the same room without a brawl ensuing. Of course the Yankees invariably wound up the victors which gave every Dodger fan (including my two older brothers) a loser's complex for life. I learned early to remain neutral, if not indifferent, to all such passions for my own dear sanity and peace of mind.
Lauren: Seems so silly though for them to feel misery when truthfully they’re not even actually involved. Proves too that people really want the last word – no matter how thoughtless it makes them look.
Linda: Thank you! I’m a big believer in karma – perhaps that’s why their teams often lose – never providing happiness where it’s so sorely needed.
NP: The Brooklyn Dodgers - Yankees rivalry was fueled further IMHO with the fact that they became such natural rivals in the 40’s and 50’s as both teams were good at the same time and met often in the World Series. Must agree too with the mindful benefits of neutrality – although, truth be told I’ve never been able to fulfill it in my following of sports! I know I’ll be in a lousy mood tonight if the Giants play poorly again this afternoon.
Here is a completely random collection of crap I've thought of, and sometimes took a moment to record in easy to use blog form. Some of the stories that are, and will continue to be included have not had any name changes to protect anyone. Nobody is innocent.
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I don't follow sports much so I don't know a whole lot about that. I have noticed that fans seem to take it way to seriously though. Now assholes? I know about them...lol Most of them are all proud of it too
You know I simply had to comment! I tried not to. I did!
As a life-long Red Sox fan, "Yankees Suck" is not an opinion to me, just a statement of an long held and accepted fact in my life. From my perspective, they do, in fact, suck.
That said, there are no other teams that I would love to see at Fenway as much as the Yankees and I really enjoy hating them so.
I honestly feel that the Yankees/Sox rivalry greatly enhances the game for me. And if they Yankees weren't as good as they are, they probably wouldn't 'suck' so much.
So Congratulations on your team winning the World Series.
Sincerely, a Yankee-hating, die-hard, Sox fan.
No, seriously, Congrats!
Opinions are like assholes, yup we all have one. Either you are a Yankee fan or a Yankee hater. No team I know of can cause such a extreme fan base on either side. Yeah sure we 'bought" the championship, just like we bought the championship for the last nine years, NOT.
What are we not suppose to spend the money available to get the best players that we can. New York is not Oshkosh, so therefore we do have a great revenue stream. But money in and of itself cannot buy a world title, except maybe in boxing.
We are the champions period. Been a Yankee fan with Horace Clark and Roy White and on and on also. But we didn't abandon ship when they sucked. Hey I have also been a Cheesehead all my life and haven't had a great many seasons to be happy over.
So I am happy and dancing and yes I am a Yankee FaN!
Ann: Yes, they are oddly proud all the time aren’t they? Really would love to know who they see in the mirror every morning though – because that person must look way better than the one we have to look at.
C: Glad you did! And thanks too! I do get the whole “your team sucks” when it’s in regards to a natural rivalry such as Red Sox-Yankees – it’s the best rivalry and most venomous one in sports, plus both teams have been consistently good for most of the past 35 seasons or so. I think it’s more annoying for me to get it from a Mets fan – because I never got the whole cross-town jealousy thing.
MOB: You’re right.
Every team has the opportunity to play on the same “field” – the Yankees just make the most of what they have. Considering how many teams have benefited from the Yankees through revenue sharing, luxury tax payments and the like – it’s just so frustrating to hear how a championship was “bought” by the fans of the teams who gladly took the Yankees money.
It’s nice to be happy for this!
I guess you proved that misery loves company since all the Yankee haters hang out in a forum to bitch to one another. Geez. Don't they have any thing better to do? I guess a shrink would call it transference.
I know that there are rabid fans out there and I am not so sure as to why their anger(jealous) comes out in such a fashion. It is their karma to deal with. Enjoy your victory with all of the gusto you can muster and wave it here... let them eat cake!
oh yeah, Congrats on your victory!!
I'm old. When I was a kid the Dodgers were still in Brooklyn. Imagine the rivalry that develops when the top teams in both leagues are situated in the same city. Dodger and Yankee fans couldn't be in the same room without a brawl ensuing. Of course the Yankees invariably wound up the victors which gave every Dodger fan (including my two older brothers) a loser's complex for life. I learned early to remain neutral, if not indifferent, to all such passions for my own dear sanity and peace of mind.
Lauren: Seems so silly though for them to feel misery when truthfully they’re not even actually involved. Proves too that people really want the last word – no matter how thoughtless it makes them look.
Linda: Thank you! I’m a big believer in karma – perhaps that’s why their teams often lose – never providing happiness where it’s so sorely needed.
NP: The Brooklyn Dodgers - Yankees rivalry was fueled further IMHO with the fact that they became such natural rivals in the 40’s and 50’s as both teams were good at the same time and met often in the World Series. Must agree too with the mindful benefits of neutrality – although, truth be told I’ve never been able to fulfill it in my following of sports! I know I’ll be in a lousy mood tonight if the Giants play poorly again this afternoon.
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